The Art of Gratitude: Show Your Dog You Appreciate Them
In the United States, we’re coming up on Thanksgiving. A tradition many families have, after the squabbles, bickering and dealing with Uncle Joe’s crazy comments about the state of politics, is to say what we’re thankful for in our lives.
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While I’m always thankful I have my silly dogs, it’s great to actually remember how to show her!
Right now, it’s Luna (yes, of Casa Luna Canines!) and even though she challenges my dog training efforts every day, she makes me laugh and smile and sleep in a little too late because she makes such a great pillow!
Well, it’s time we all show our dogs some gratitude. And we can easily do this in a way the DOG understands and appreciates - you know, to make up for all the hugs, face smooshes, boops and head pats they have had to endure from us humans all year. Here are some ideas:
Take a Day to Listen: For an entire day, pay close attention to your dog's body language and vocalizations. Do they ever duck away from your hand when you go to pet? Yep. They endure us, but they may actually not LOVE their face touched. Does your dog vocalize or get itchy during training? That can be signs of frustration and stress. Understanding their communication is a powerful way to show appreciation.
Respect Their Space: Dogs appreciate their personal space. Give them a quiet place to retreat when they need a break or alone time - especially during this holiday season! They can get just as overwhelmed by Uncle Joe’s loud voice as you. And all the interaction can send them into overload so make sure they have a place to go that is quiet and no one disturbs them so they can relax.
Comfort and Safety: Make your dog has a comfortable and safe environment all the time! Help them get used to it now so they know where they can go while the guests are at the house. A cozy bed, or better yet a crate, or a secure yard can help keep your dog safe and happy.
Routine and Predictability: Dogs thrive on routine and predictability. And the seasonal festivities don’t always allow for routine. Do your best to find some sort of consistency in your day and provide clear boundaries so your dog has a sense of security and appreciation.
Understanding and Empathy: Be attuned to your dog's needs and emotions. Show empathy and understanding by CALMLY sitting near them when they're anxious, scared, or unwell (like if they got a few too many table treats from guests). Also, know that the added stress YOU may feel around the holidays can easily translate to your dog feeling stressed, too.
Regular Exercise: Show appreciation by ensuring your dog gets regular exercise - both physical and mental. Walks, runs, and playtime in the yard can be great ways to keep them healthy and happy.
Training and Challenges: Engage in training sessions or teach your dog new tricks. Dogs love to learn, and training provides mental stimulation, bonding, and a sense of accomplishment. Mental exercise is just as important as physical exercise, and for many dogs, it’s even more important.
Fall is a grateful time of year. Show your dog some appreciation for tolerating all our weird human behavior the rest of the year!
Luna is a great napper. She is showing her appreciation for the blanket given to us humans…but we have yet to use!
